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Shelby Smith's avatar

Beautiful piece! This reminds me of something AJ Jacobs surprised me with on his guest appearance of the Tim Ferriss Show: One way to be happier is to not be nostalgic. I considered myself a nostalgic person at the time, and often loved revisiting old memories and reliving those feelings. But now I realize it's toxic to hold ourselves in the past. "One is either constantly progressing or constantly regressing - there is no standing still."

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Matt's avatar

Really great piece. I like the part about rivers running in one direction lapping into the ocean.

Sometimes beginnings and endings in shifts of identity move so suddenly you can see a stark difference in yourself while other times the changes happen so gradually that you don't notice a shift at all.

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