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Chris James's avatar

Finding the right people is the challenge of a lifetime.

Chris James's avatar

I’m writing and posting a note on this

Sul Mahmood's avatar

Really enjoyed this. A reminder to put yourself out there to connect with others.

Nix's avatar

thank you!

Tatiana's avatar

Stumbled upon your Twitter and now I'm here.

Just opened one letter and I'm already in love. Your writing is so beautiful and serene.

"They differ in what they value."

"Finding the right people is the challenge of a lifetime."

"Beauty in the most distilled sense has the power to crack open belief systems."

"It's hard to find, but it's everywhere. You just have to look."

Will always read your work as long as I can, to be inspired and to learn (both about life and how to write).

Nix's avatar

thank you so much, this is a wonderful comment

Christian Näthler's avatar

As I find myself in a period during which many of my social circles are unravelling, this writing came at the perfect time.

Leo Ariel's avatar

“Being free in ways you’re not”. I love this way of thinking!

I’ve set my life up so that I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. Like pick up my bags and travel halfway across the world, at a moments notice. Already done that, multiple times!

How many people can say that?? So many are trapped in jobs, expectations, routines that are undesirable. It’s important for all of us to craft the life we want to live.

Jash Shah's avatar

Really enjoying your substack. They are so relatable. Enjoyed every word of it.

Nix's avatar

thank you!

nicaia's avatar

I found a friend, who is now my situation, simply from mutual work sitches & being a cheerleader, but i live EVERYDAY feeling safe and myself around them, and it's the least expected friendship i ever thought would fill my life w this much joy, but beauty truly lies in the eyes of the beholder 🥺💙

Nix's avatar

Omg this is WONDERFUL 🤍

Michael Edward's avatar

This was such a great read - thank you

Shubham Kumar's avatar

Thank you Nicole. Your writings have made me see parts of myself which I was not attending. I will revisit it some more times so that I am reminded about friendship.

pixie pensamientos's avatar

i love this. thank u so much for posting!

alilbye's avatar

takeaway: im just talking to the wrong ones...

Aishwary Thakur's avatar

this is lovely, but i was also looking forward to your French song of the week 🤭

Nix's avatar

omg yay okay will make sure to include in my next one :)

jacky (:'s avatar

loved this piece as always (:

A.M.'s avatar

so good as always. this was beautiful. thank you <3

Nix's avatar

thank youu! <3

ella's avatar

this makes my heart feel warm.

Nandini's avatar

i am floored at how you articulated this and in awe of your persona. i would love to connect, either here, on the medium or Instagram--- medium is https://womenofcaliber.medium.com/ and my Instagram is https://www.instagram.com/_womenofcaliber/