boundaries are great, but I always have to interrogate myself: is setting this βboundaryβ just me being an asshole? is this boundary unreasonable, selfish?
or, am i unnecessarily coddling myself? am i keeping myself in my comfort zone? am i cutting myself off from connection in the name of cheap comfort?
i love this! a quote that opened my eyes to healthy boundaries: "boundaries are the distance at which i can love you and me simultaneously" (prentis hemphill)
boundaries are great, but I always have to interrogate myself: is setting this βboundaryβ just me being an asshole? is this boundary unreasonable, selfish?
or, am i unnecessarily coddling myself? am i keeping myself in my comfort zone? am i cutting myself off from connection in the name of cheap comfort?
these questions are so hard!
i love this! a quote that opened my eyes to healthy boundaries: "boundaries are the distance at which i can love you and me simultaneously" (prentis hemphill)
βevery honest no makes space for a true yesβ π
I love Caroline Donofrino!